Become a player online dating endate Vejle
The smooth operator at the club, the guy who has impeccable style and oozes confidence when he asks for your number…players generally abide by a certain m.o. If you can’t see him, how can you tell if you’re being played?
He’s Always Online-Every time you log on, there he is!
He Writes Form Emails-Have you ever received an email that just seems too perfectly composed with 3-4 paragraphs listing his likes and dislikes, hopes and dreams?
The whole thing seems so fake…probably because it is. I received an email like this once and promptly shot off an annoyed “Wow, that was original” response.
And, yes, we can choose to perceive it as an excuse; but I can tell you firsthand, I have been accused of playing hard to get or intentionally not being available when, in fact, I have been working 15-hour days.
If I am speaking at an event or filming on set for 12 hours straight, I am not playing hard to get, but may not even have my phone to call or text you back, and I certainly don’t have time to see you for dinner that night. More and more women are uber focused on their careers.
Too much, too soon is a huge indication that he isn’t being genuine-he knows what to say and how to say it, because his lines have worked on multiple women before you.
He expects you to respond a certain way (flattered and falling for him), that he barely has to put any effort into his sweet text messages or witty emails.
It’s all a numbers game to him, and he’s in it to win it!
It really is like a basketball game; the ball bounces from your court to her court at different times, especially at the beginning when you are learning about one another.
I am definitely guilty of having a guy pursue and chase me and make it oh-so-easy early on that I have felt like I didn’t have to work as hard to build something. He skips calling me for a day or two or doesn’t ask me out for Saturday night and I go cray-cray.
He Never Wants To Meet (In real life)-Getting an online player to step away from his macbook and hang out in the real world is next to impossible.
Why would he want to put himself out there, when he’s safe in his internet playin bubble.