Dating advice calling too much
I have been debating even asking you as it seemed trivial at first, however I don’t feel that it is.
Here it is: It really frustrates me that when I don’t see him, that we barely speak on the phone…It’s just that I would like to talk to him more when I’m not able to see him and when I don’t, I feel disconnected.
Anyway your help would be greatly appreciated :)) Goodness gracious, Jill!
You’re lucky I’m not a lawyer, ’cause then I would have had to charge you 2.83 just for reading this. ‘MAM’, perhaps — it stands for ‘musing and mulling’.
Dear readers — kindly keep it under 250 words, willya. Also, you are not allowed to put ‘lol’ in a letter unless you actually laugh out loud . As in, “I wonder if I’m overthinking this whole thing (MAM).” Because you musing and mulling.
So as soon as you’re in an established intimate relationship, decide how often you want to speak to him, and establish that as a baseline.Notice how in both Scenario A and Scenario B, the ladies have called their men 4 times in a 5-day stretch. In B, the guy’s thinking he’s got an amazingly self-sufficient girlfriend who barely needs to call him. There’s a whole section on which should be mandatory reading for all of you.But the fourth call in Scenario A is more likely to be welcome than the one in Scenario B. 3) Trust your intuition without dumping on him too much.We have great communication, great attraction, share the same values, have fun together, etc. We see each other as much as possible, however with his child and my work schedule, it’s sometimes not as much as we would like.At any rate it is one of the best, if not the best, relationship, I have ever been in, however there is only one thing that bothers me and that I don’t know how to address it.